Thursday, January 21, 2010

Generic Wedding Thank You Is It Tacky To Have Your Wedding Menu Cards Double As The "Thank You" Note Card In Order To Save Time/money?

Is it tacky to have your wedding menu cards double as the "Thank You" note card in order to save time/money? - generic wedding thank you

In my next wedding, we ask for donations for my Finacea, and I lived together three years and nothing need normal mode register. Since we are not grateful for the donations from certain people, I wonder whether it tasteless to print a generic "thank you" letters are placed on both of us in the back of our menu cards in each Welcome seat. Any reflection on modern wedding etiquette "Thank you"?

6 comments:

Kristy said...

If you want to be ungrateful can you write thank you cards from the menu. But if you have more than just money grubbing greedy and take the time to write his family and friends a sincere thanks for his presence and his gift. But it is their choice. If you really care enough about the man himself put to thank some of their time with you, then it is your choice and can testify, dass

Good luck!

susanb said...

Unfortunately, this can only repeat what most have said - thanks to generic wedding!

Even if (you do not understand anything about anything and this is done especially like when they feel insulted that you) demand for money, you should send a handwritten personal thank you from sharing your special day with you.

You thank them for participating in their special day out of the way, for the love and support that has contributed to the relationship, etc., and the message special and personal for everyone! The gift itself is a small part of this message. They think of you and share it with you.

Please follow the advice of everyone here. I'm happy about going against tradition, but it is on the label.

Jen said...

Yes, it is very sticky. The point of a thank you note - for every occasion - is that you write to take 10 minutes to complete and send a personal thank you. Receiving a letter is so satisfying, and just a general "thank you" is very insulting.
You can really save you time and money and with the same time not a reception for all!
I have no comment to ask "for donations. I would like to extend an invitation to a wedding in the trash if it contains the proposal, and would be the end.

Jen said...

Yes, it is very sticky. The point of a thank you note - for every occasion - is that you write to take 10 minutes to complete and send a personal thank you. Receiving a letter is so satisfying, and just a general "thank you" is very insulting.
You can really save you time and money and with the same time not a reception for all!
I have no comment to ask "for donations. I would like to extend an invitation to a wedding in the trash if it contains the proposal, and would be the end.

Rhode Island Red said...

Yes, it is tasteless. Consider this: The guests took part in the time your wedding and reception, I bought a shower gift, a wedding and you have time and money with them worry? It is rude, and I do not know how they obtained them, but that's not true at all. You have one year to write from her marriage, I could manage the time to thank people for holding one of the most important days in your life! They are rude, you too?

boredatw... said...

Sticky. The pain of getting up and dressed and go to your wedding and cared enough to carry a card with cash, which they might provide you with favor and sent personal letters to your home.

PS-called "donations only" is to be in poor taste. Try this instead, as a suggestion and not a request made. Note that customers are not required to make a gift to all (even if the best friend of your mother, you have the ugliest you've ever seen Afghans have instead of what you asked, thank you anyway - is that the idea , is one of.)
Enjoy! and congratulations!

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